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学习动力下降、不想上学

的常见因素：

*过度被打骂、过度批判
*学习困难没有排解
*缺少有效引导
*软性技能缺失，如：独立做事等
*被“网红经济”等现象“洗脑”
*读书无用论、成功不靠学业、
读书为了考试没意思等
*面对伤害，例如：霸凌
*害怕失败等

情绪不好、难沟通的

常见因素：

*未掌握该有的软性技能
（特别是自理和表达能力的部分）
*过去负面经验导致偏见等
*心智发展阶段受到阻碍
*家庭教育模式有漏洞
*过多的摩擦、争执、不和
*不被理解、不被接纳等
*认知扭曲、认知偏差等

心理健康已经亮红灯，
问题如：

*忧郁
*焦虑
*自残
*自暴自弃
*手机成瘾
*其它成瘾

*社恐、阴影
*违抗性障碍等

1. Why should parents not put off solving their children’s problems?

✅Answer 1: Children’s self-control and restraint develop slowly and mature, and parents think that their children are difficult to teach and communicate with.

✅Answer 2: The child is not mature enough and does not know how to resolve his own emotional problems, which directly undermines his self-confidence and self-worth.

✅Answer 3: Modern children have many temptations and it is easy for them to lose motivation to study, which affects their academic performance

✅Answer 4: Many parents have not yet mastered the correct method of "effective communication" (⚠️)
✅Answer 5: Parents’ perspectives on analyzing their children’s problems and behaviors are mostly wrong (⚠️)
✅Answer 6: Parents delaying solving problems is actually "cruel" to their children (⚠️)

✅Answer 7: Parents lack knowledge about children’s psychology and mental needs (⚠️)

✅Answer 8: Parents hope that the problem will disappear automatically, but in reality it is impossible (⚠️)
✅Answer 9: Children of authoritarian parents, doting parents, and hot-tempered parents have a lot of problems (⚠️)

✅Answer 10: Parents are unwilling to face the problem, and only rush to find a teacher to solve it when it gets seriously out of control (⚠️)

CBT and You

Introduction

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) The original author and famous representatives include Aaron T. Beck, Albert Ellis, etc. CBT is a talk therapy and psychotherapy approach to achieve goals and solve emotional, behavioral and cognitive problems that cause functional impairment.

Cognitive Behavioral Theory and Children (0-18 years old)

Targeting common child behavior problems can help:

💡Improve the old habit of procrastination
💡 Increase your self-confidence and reduce your inferiority complex
💡Improve various negative emotions and thoughts
💡Add points to self-discipline and motivation
💡Strengthen communication and soft skills
💡Increase self-esteem and happiness
💡Establish good behaviors and correct bad habits

For more serious problems, you can
💡Help manage symptoms of mental illness
💡Prevent symptoms of mental illness
💡Help improve coping with life stress
💡Methods to help improve your emotional management
💡 Help resolve relationship conflicts and learn better ways to communicate
💡Help in dealing with grief, anger, sadness
💡Help overcome emotional trauma and spiritual trauma
💡 Helps prevent chronic distorted thinking

Cognitive behavioral theory and our lives

According to NHMS data from China in 2019 , 424,000 children in the country suffer from mental illness. Based on this, many research reports show that mental health disorders such as: